Hi Guys,

Oct-Nov, I'll be visiting Sapa, Hanoi, Hue, Hoi-an, Saigon (HCMC), and the Mekong delta. Got the impression so far from my web research that there're no venues for active fun, and very few ads for rent/money boys. Would very much appreciate info and tips.

Beyond this general request:
1) Some months ago a forum member here suggested using vietfun.com through its the link for videofun. However, I couldn't locate the next link for "gay". Was it taken off? Did I miss something??
2) Do masseurs at Ami Spa really go for extras? If so, is it 'just' happyendings or can it proceed to more interaction?
3) On one hand I read boys could be picked up at certain locations (e.g. the lake in Hanoi). On the other hand, apparently they can't be taken to a hotel and it's too dangerous to go with them. So, what's to be done?
4) There are no ads for escorts on Gay Romeo, but there're more than 100 users. I'm 55 yo and don't hold special attratctions for the young and handsome. Is it ok to ask them about sex-for-pay. I'm unfamiliar with GR etiquette...

Thanks in advance for as much guidance as possible.