I finally re-established my paypal account. The Alertpay thing wasn't working with most users and most people have never heard of it and it doesnt integrate with phpbb3 to add donors to Golden Members automatically. I still do have that alertpay account for those few of you who actually prefer it. The default pay system is now set back to paypal, though.
Theres a paypal donate icon on the top right of the index page. If you click on that it takes you to a page where you choose the amount to donate then that takes you to the paypal page to complete the payment. Clicking through this way automatically adds you to Golden Members (if you are not one already) which allows you to have a blog and photo album and extra upload file quota as well as unlimited storage of private messages.
Thanks.