Proper Etiquette with a Moneyboy

[Newbie99]

When you are back in the room with your new friend, do you just go at it until you are finished and then dispense with them?

Or do you help with them out? Before or after you are finished?

Or do they not care if *they* finish because they have other customers?

Or, do they finish, but you don't?

Or, do they finish, and then help you out?

Sorry for the euphemisms, but this is a family forum. I'm just wondering about the mechanics of what you do.

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[Dodger]

Up2U...

They'll do whatever you prefer.

Just enjoy and don't think too much!

[Oliver2]

Be kind, gentle and as generous as you can. He will respond accordingly. The transaction is a primarily a financial one but the more friendly you can be, the better the experience for you both. Remember to be safe and , as Dodger says, don't be anxious.

[arsenal]

As one of the world's leading experts on Thai money boys with over 250 trysts I concur with the 2 posts above.

You can pretty much do what you want, just agree on everything beforehand. Then in the room you're friends.

[francois]

When you are back in the room with your new friend, do you just go at it until you are finished and then dispense with them?


Sorry for the euphemisms, but this is a family forum. I'm just wondering about the mechanics of what you do.

This forum is not a family forum, so you can skip the euphemisms. Whatever you do, please use a condom if engaged in anal sex.

[Moses]

It isn't family forum I just don't want it to be in the "porn" category in Google. Let's say it is 16+.

About your questions:
think by brain, not by head
prepare room for visit: don't leave valuable gadgets, money and jewelry on sight, use safebox,
don't have any potential weapon including knives available
have in your pocket enough money for payment and tips, but no more
stay in hotel where reception check IDs of visitors, and check you by phone and asks if everything is OK when they leaving
don't drink/eat anything what was out of your sight even for 5 sec
discuss all what you want to do with boy before to off him from the bar as well as price "total"
do with boy only "things" what were discussed before to off him, and this includes also romantic/rude/brutal style of action
discuss what result you want: "one hour", "until I cum" and so on
always only safe sex with condoms
respect boy unless your discussed with boy style is "toyboy"/"thing", he is worker but he is human
you shouldn't care if boy cum or not if you don't agreed "until you cum" or "until we both cum"
give him money to his hands directly

[Dodger]

[QUOTE=Moses;296652)

think by brain, not by head. QUOTE]

Correction: Our actions in Thailand are guided almost exclusively by our "Penis" not our "Brain". If we were using our brains we probably wouldn't be in Thailand to begin with...555

On a serious note: The only thing I've ever discussed with a boy before heading back to the room is the length of the off, i.e., short time, long time, etc. Nothing more, because in my opinion allowing things to flow naturally always results in the best sex.

I can count the number of disappointments I've had on one hand. And if I told you how many boys I've offed over the past 25 years I'd need a thousand hands.

[arsenal]

"On a serious note: The only thing I've ever discussed with a boy before heading back to the room is the length of the off, i.e., short time, long time, etc. Nothing more, because in my opinion allowing things to flow naturally always results in the best sex"
Dodger

It's different these days Dodge. That policy might result in no sex at all. After all, in every single other purchase we make we demand to know what we're getting and for how much.

[Oliver2]

Arranging the price before the event is a controversial issue. In August 1995, when my awakening occurred, I was dependent on Michael Notcutt's estimable "Thai Scene"....in those days , of course, there were no forums like this.
He advised readers not to do so, putting forward an argument that was similar to Dodger's. He suggested that it encouraged a freer, more natural and spontaneous assignation. Accordingly, with no one else to consult, I followed suit. I cannot recall anyone asking how much before I offed them.
I always offered the perceived average, again on Mr Notcutt's recommendation. I recall one plaintive Oliver Twist - accompanied by a sweet smile- but otherwise the transaction, or at least its financial aspect- was always satisfactory.

However, I wonder if today's workers are as easy-going as the ones I met thirty years ago? their access to SM, their financial expectations and aspirations may be more ambitious. Perhaps they are less innocent, wiser and more sophisticated. And I suspect that the average age is higher.

[Dodger]

"On a serious note: The only thing I've ever discussed with a boy before heading back to the room is the length of the off, i.e., short time, long time, etc. Nothing more, because in my opinion allowing things to flow naturally always results in the best sex"
Dodger

It's different these days Dodge. That policy might result in no sex at all.......

I know things have changed (all things do) - but "no sex" equals "no tip" any way you carve the turkey.