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    Disturbing confession of a moneyboy

    Disturbing confession of a moneyboy:

    I have know this handsome mb-boy almost 4 years, 2 years ago he confided in me that he became HIV positive, which was no surprise. He has maintained his health except for the usual STDтАЩs crabs, syphilis, herpes ectтАжтАж..

    I recently spent a few days with him last month. I found it very disturbing what he was telling me and showing me. To my amazement the first day he wanted to be the top and not use a condom I explained the reasons why itтАЩs so important for safe sex and the need for protection. He then explained back to me that when he тАЬworksтАЭ тАЬhe rarely uses a condom and that when he doesтАж. тАЬHe pops it with his sharp nail to let it drink inтАЭ OMGтАжтАжтАжтАж He explained that certain тАЬcustomers should get the same surprise that he got! I downplayed how upset I was suggested that most of his тАЬcustomersтАЭ would most likely already have the HIV and that it didnтАЩt matterтАж so why bother trying to infect them.

    I have returned back from my holiday, and of course IтАЩm scared. My question is what controls does the Thai government have to enforce the practice of safe sex among the independent sex workers. This person can see up 3-5 people in a given week, so do the mathтАжтАжтАж..

    Phillip


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    I had a similar, scary experience, 3 years ago, when I was a "newbie" living in BKK.
    though, that was not a MB, just a regular "19-year-old-next-door" who was interested to do it with a Farang. no money involved.
    He was the first guy I took to my new apartment that time. He insisted to switch off the light before "playing the game", and then I was shocked to find out, after we finished, that he had let the condom disappear silently before he started action (he was the top). this means, he came inside me.....
    as u can imagine, I had a unpleasant time for many weeks, until it did make sense to go to have a HIV-Test. that first test, to my relief, was negative, but then I still didnt believe the result and went to another one few months later, which was negative again. Today I know this guy DID HAVE the virus, and he did pass it to another guy I know (a Hongkong-chinese in his late twenties, who then had to leave Thailand and go back to HKG to get the proper treatment from his social-care-scheme).

    its sad to say, but thats just the way the Thais are: they rarely show any kind of responsibility for their actions and wrongdoings (another example: 99% of the bus- or truck-drivers who cause an accident, flee the scene and dont care about injured or dead people).

    we Farang wont be able change the attitude of the Thais, we just have to accept it like that and take our own precautions (in my case: never let someone switch off the light again).

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    I knew a deaf and dumb money boy that worked from soi 4 for many years, and found out much later he had AIDS and was determined to have sex with as many farang as possible. He lived with a farang english teacher who took him to Melbourne several times where the farang tried to palm his boy off to his friends as a favour. He encouraged his friends to take his boy to the saunas, without informing them of his condition. I heard he was able to get HIV drugs for the boy even though he was determinedly spreading the disease. The new name for this practice at least here is "breeders'

    Needless to say there were many angry words exchanged and he lost many friends as a result. He still lives in BKK and still is teaching. Rumors and I stress rumors are that he has another deaf and dumb money boy as a live in bf, who is also infected with AIDS and also works soi4.

    I have told him he deserves to go to prison. In my city we have had 2 cases of people being put away for failing to advise their HIV status in the last 12 months.
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    its sad to say, but thats just the way the Thais are: they rarely show any kind of responsibility for their actions and wrongdoings ...we Farang wont be able change the attitude of the Thais, we just have to accept it like that and take our own precautions (in my case: never let someone switch off the light again).
    Yes, why can't they be more like responsible farang sex tourists traveling the globe with all their STD's, fucking the shit out of poor people (literally & figuratively) and debating on responsible forums, such as this one, how little they can pay the fuckees?

    99% of the bus- or truck-drivers who cause an accident, flee the scene and dont care about injured or dead people
    99% of the time people who try to use statistics to bolster their brainless arguments simply increase the stupidity factor. I think someone may have permanently switched off the lights.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AsiaWolfie
    its sad to say, but thats just the way the Thais are: they rarely show any kind of responsibility for their actions and wrongdoings (another example: 99% of the bus- or truck-drivers who cause an accident, flee the scene and dont care about injured or dead people).
    It is very unfair to condemn an entire country just because of the stupid, selfish and dangerous actions of a few; I remember reading reports of just this happening in a number of Western countries a few years ago, so it is by no means confined to Thailand. Whilst I can understand, but by no means condone, the desire for revenge what I find most upsetting and irresponsible are those who are knowingly infected but who still do not inform their wives. I have known one such for a long time (some 20 years) and they now have two children, even though I persuaded him to tell his wife when she was pregnant with the first child - obviously to no avail.

    I think 99% is a bit of an exaggeration, and in any case it may well be a case of self-preservation rather than not caring about the injured - note the recent case of the bus driver who was assaulted and severely injured by the driver of a car he had had a minor accident with, who then deliberately drove his Benz into the bus queue killing one man and severely injuring a number of others (the driver was the 20 year old son of Miss Thailand 1984 and a very wealthy businessman).

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    Hi,

    A very disturbing and frightening thread, no matter where it occurs in the World.

    It is downright evil to deliberately do this to another person, with the self forgiving principle of, "someone did it to me!'

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    If you are interrested a little about AIDS and HIV, you should know that eastern Asia is the part of the world where the infection grow again and again.
    Pattaya is N┬░1 in the world for "prostitution", and more and more people are infected.
    To act like " I do what others do to me" is very well-known in HIV fighting.
    Westerners who begin to win against Aids, invent Bareback, just another way to Kill people.
    Thai guy think about days, not so much about weeks and months, and not about future.
    They know price are better if "No condom". and they need short or long time, and the best they earn, the best they think "good for their life".
    The only way to do and to have is "never without condom" and try to speak, to teach, to say again and again and again.
    Because at this time is not only just a few, but so many who are infected and most them still dont know, because accepting to make test is thinking about your way to act. It's so scaring.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gone Fishing
    Quote Originally Posted by AsiaWolfie
    its sad to say, but thats just the way the Thais are: they rarely show any kind of responsibility for their actions and wrongdoings (another example: 99% of the bus- or truck-drivers who cause an accident, flee the scene and dont care about injured or dead people).
    It is very unfair to condemn an entire country just because of the stupid, selfish and dangerous actions of a few
    It is very unfair indeed GF, I totally agree with you, but so much easier for the ignorant and bigoted among us to do, wouldn't you agree?


    George.

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    BB is very popular in the west now, because of the treatments, with side effects, yes crazy, but it also reminds me, to always teach safe sex wherever in the world I am. How many time have I not heard the "are you clean?", my answer is always yes I am, but the next will maybe lie to you, therefore.....oh it seems to be easier to be a top ;-)

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    Take responsibility for your own health

    What about taking charge of your own life, act responsibly and use a condom every time rather than blaming it on Thai boys?

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