This old Dad, or Tito, has been visiting the PHs for 8 years.
I find the guys there much more loving and fun to go out with than the guys I meet in Thailand.
And for me at 73 yo it is great to meet younger men who really enjoy making love to a Daddy!!
Of course, you must be careful. Many Filipino, or Pinoy men, are looking for a Westerner to take them out of the poverty of the Philippines. And they can play you just like a sweet "straight" Thai man.
My advice is to get out of Manila!!
As Nirish says, Manila is a shit hole.
Fly to Cebu instead. Many many handsome guys in Cebu and nice restaurants and close beaches.
I often stay at the Crown Regency Towers for US$60 per nice, double room, with two free breakfasts.
No problem bringing anyone back to your room.
I also love Davao, on Mindanao. And YES it is very safe!!! The Mayor keeps a tight hand on crime and any hint of terrorists.
Again, beautiful beaches across the channel on Samal.
And many less expensive hotel to choose from.
GOOD LUCK!!!
And as they say in Tagalog, INGAT (Take care!!!)