Lets imagine you are traveling through thailand and you stop at a remote village to get a cold drink. As you sip your drink and take pictures, a group of young guys with happy smiling faces, faces that show wonder and surprise along with genuine curiosity approach you. They all ask you questions of where you are from, where you are going along with a thousand other questions. Some questions in Thai and some in broken English.
After some time of your entertaining their questions and enjoying a good laugh yourself. The oldest among them sends the group away but he stays to talk. Soon you learn that he and his family is poor and he tells you in a whisper that he heard of hushed rumors that a guy can go to the city and get a job at a gogo and let men do things to him for money. He looks to you as being wise and able to give him the best advice in this matter.
You look at the handsome young man and offer this advice.........