My boyfriend lives in a rice village, no jobs available at present so no money. This walking ATM is carefull about handing over his money, we all know the stories of the love struck farang and his empty bank account. I have known the bf for over a year and I like his family and most of the relatives very much and stay with them often. The bf is not over the top with showing affection which does not help the situation.
I read blogs about other farangs spending many baht to build houses, bungalows and shops for their Thai boyfriends. I have already lent the family some money which I will never get back. At least I can see where the money went as they now have a washing machine and lockable windows on the house.
How much is suitable for a monthly allowance?
Am I being over cautious or is it time to move on?
If I start again with another guy it will probably end up in a similar situation.