dab69 (July 3rd, 2021), goji (July 3rd, 2021), Patanawet (July 3rd, 2021), splinter1949 (July 3rd, 2021)
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So I had a few massages with a Cambodian boy in Jomtien plaza. Every massage was a work up to a HJ, but I am interested in more. I am not sure if he is a straight boy who just does BJ/HJ, or offers full service. Maybe I will offer baht for FS tomorrow.
Last week, he was trying for a HJ, but I declined. After that, he gave me a desultory standard massage. Actually a HJ would have been nice, but he offered the HJ in the middle of the massage.
Sometimes it's necessary to take control.
I failed to do that in one of the Jomtien massage shops, when a happy ending was provided at the end of the massage, which was after ~20 minutes. [One of the ones on the opposite side of the road from Subway]
So next time I had a massage, firstly it was somewhere else and secondly, I made it very clear that I expect a 1 hour massage to last for an hour.
The worst massage I ever had was in Rama 1V, Bangkok, circa 1999. The massage lasted ten minutes and the vanilla sex twenty. Not only that, but there was no shower , merely a tub of cold water. And the guy turned-out to be the hairiest below the belt I've ever seen. A real turn-off for me.
francois (July 15th, 2021)
I check facilities first (after selecting masseur). If there is something I don't like, I skip. A few years ago in Siem Reap, if I remember correctly there was no shower (only cold water tub) which I would have accepted, but there were no towels either! When I raised this point, the masseur went to search for a towel and came back with something that might have been a scarf. I left without massage.
As for the masseur being hairy, that's a big issue for me as well, but now I can estimate body hair from facial hair.