I really enjoy x-tube and so do many of its members as they always seem to be online.There are some really hot young asian guys putting up good videos and pics.My favorite videos list is chock full of them,in fact they are all of asians but one(a very hott video of a black twink). Ok,I should probably just enjoy the videos and be thankfull that they are there,but if you find someone interesting you can message them and request they put you on their "friend list". Some members have hundreds of friends while some might have 20 or 30. Im feeling left out as Ive been ignored by a few asian guys who wont add me as a friend because of my profile. I didnt put my age,but did say i was an older guy.Well this is the kiss of death if you want friends of the kind were used to having sex with in different parts of Thailand.In fact in their profiles most will say no one older than 30,do not message me if your disturbingling old(lol),unless your stunningly good looking dont waste your time if your over 30,etc. So what Im saying is,after being in los and having guys falling over themselves trying to have you take them with you,its a cold reality coming back home and feeling like a lepper with the very same young looking guys. But,it makes you apreciate los all the more.I hope this stigma of being "old" does not catch on with the guys in the go go bars and open bars,maybe some day they will all be empty. So the answer by some will be find someone your own age,fair enough. Im not asking for sex either ,or any hookups.And to show Im not a hypocryte,I had sex with a fifty year old when I was in my early twenties. Okay,ok Im just your average chicken-hawk I guess.