ChristianPFC

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My working live is now 20 years. I started immediately after graduating from University. My income is good, better than average here in the Netherlands. But I can not save 1000 EUR every month

You really are a man of some contradictions. You say you have been working for 20 years after graduation. So presumably you are around 42 or 43.

I must say I have a huge mortgage, house prices are expensive here; no partner, so all costs I have to pay myself; mortgage is 33% of my income after taxes

So you have no partner. Yet in July 2014 before your first visit to Thailand in October, you wrote this -

My boyfriend and I are first time travellers to Pattaya.

OK, did your boyfriend not contribute to your mortgage? OK, so perhaps he did not live with you. But on the same day you then wrote this -

We will be in gogobars, massage salons, etc. Won't use the beach that much. And with hopefully some hot boys in our hotel room :-)

So you were definitely going on a holiday a deux. Not sure about the nature of your relationship, but you sure seemed to forget about him in the posts you made after your return -

Was for the first time in Pattaya (Boyztown) and it is amazing. A truly gay paradise.
Nice, cute, friendly boys who seem really to like to have sex with you.
Of course I am no idiot, they do it for the money, I know. I know not many 20 year old boys truly lust for a 50 year old man. But yet they seem to enjoy it. Or they are very good actors. Even when payment has happened, they still hug you, kiss you. A European escort would never do that. After the sex he takes his money and goes away. Thai boys are different.

Funny how your partner is never even mentioned. Did you really mean we? Did you and he engage in threesomes? Why not mention that as others would be interested? And it appears you are actually 50. OK. That means you graduated at 30. Certainly possible, but when did you go to university and how did you finance yourself before you graduated? I am merely curious! And yet again you tell us what you did - but you did it on your own, not with your partner -

I for example took one with me to diner and another to a shopping mall (all besides the sex of course; which is the prime reason to have the boy in the first place).

So where was your partner during all this time, I wonder?

You saved for 18 months 1000 EUR? From a starting salary?

As stated above MANY TIMES, this and all your other questions are absolutely none of your business! Just as the questions in this post are none of mine!