I'm just making conversation and sharing my thoughts. Feel free to offer you own insight on your own Thai man experiences.

I'm due to return to Thailand in September. I was just there in April so that may be part of the reason I am not so excited about this trip. Don't misunderstand, I want to go but I am not sitting on pins and needles as the date approaches if only because it now seem so routine and familiar to me. To help me get out of my Thailand vacation rut, I have plans to spend a good portion of my trip with a poster from this board and we plan to visit Pattaya, Chiang Mai and Bangkok. His boyfriend will be coming along so it will be the 3 of us traveling around together but will be staying in separate rooms
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It's our hope to meet guys and have fun and see some sights along the way. As we talked of our plans it is obvious that we have extreme differences in our preferences when it comes to meeting guys. I prefer the internet whereas he prefers to meet them in a social setting be it a gogo, a bar or a massage house.

I like to meet the guys on the internet because they tend to out perform hired fun and stick around for more after the first orgasm. With a guy found in a gogo bar or massage place is more focused on time and money and are often done and ready to leave once either of you spill your seed.... Sure the hired guy can sometimes have all the right stuff, but the online guys can give them a run for their baht!

This is my preference for meeting guys in Thailand.

1. Online. I like meeting guys on the social media sights because I can learn what they like and they can learn what I like. We can also decide if we are meeting for just sex or sex and friendship or just friendship. Often when the sex is done the encounter is not over. To this day, many of my friends in Thailand are the friends I have met through social media.

* Social. Meeting guy through introduction or by chance on the street. This is possibly my favorite way to meet guys in Thailand but I try to size up the situation keeping in mind that I am a butterfly and not interested in dating or a relationship.

2. Disco. I have had some of my hottest sexual encounters with guys I have met at DJ station, Boat Bar in Phuket and G.O.D. in Bangkok! Those encounters have ranged from quickie sex with a guy that spoke no English who tipped me for sex (Back when I was much younger) to that of a 3 way with a Hot Thai Couple and a special memory of sex in a SUV on a Phuket beach with a hot Indian guy and those are just the few that stay at the front of my memory..

2a. Pattaya Beach Massage guy (Special Mention). I have had nothing but fun times with the Pattaya massage guys. When I find one that I like a lot, I ask for them to finish the massage in my room which always leads to satisfaction.

3. Sauna. I enjoy the cat and mouse game of the sauna but I am not sure if I like sex in a sauna. Sure I have a lot of sex there but I don't think it is satisfying sex. Sex in a sauna is fun but empty but I enjoy it enough to make it my #3 pick for meeting guys in Thailand.

3. Bars. Be it the Telephone or the like. I often get to meet a nice guy there. Seldom does my meeting a guy in a bar bring about immediate sex. It often happens after 2 or 3 meetings but they all seem to develop into lasting associations.

4. Gogo bar. There was a time that I would have ranged GOGO bars as #1 or #2 but now I don't appreciate them as much as I once did. Sure I enjoy visiting the bars and sitting with the guys but it's seldom that I will off anyone for sex. When I was younger the guys tended to stay longer and the sex was fun. Now the sex with gogo guys seems more commercial. There are exceptions to that.... There is one Pattaya gogo guy that made me smile every time i saw his face.

5. Massage House Guys. Not my favorite. Anymore, if I am getting a massage, I am there for the massage and the massage alone. In the past I use to have fun with the massage shop guys but anymore i don't find sex with them very satisfying.

6. Host bar. I have been to the Pattaya host bars. I have never offed any of the guys for sex but I do spend time with them. A few guys I have met online worked at some of the host bars in Johmtien.

Well... That is my preference as of this moment. It could change depending on the situation and the guy.

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