Massage Table Etiquette

[Newbie]

Although I have been to more than my share of massage establishments in LoS, I am never sure of the expectations from the massage boys on what the customer is supposed to do during the massages, so I generally end up just lying there and doing nothing. This seems to frustrate the massage boys to no end, except for the straight ones, who don't mind at all.

So, what is the expected behavior of a customer in such an establishment?

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Yes I go to Blue House MASSAGE in Pattaya about twice a day when im there,mainly because I like their "soap wash massage".
I gave up long ago on having a massage for "sexual pleasure" as most guys are not my type,eg,they are straight,or a MAN,muscular or dont look the ladyboy feminine type. However i enjoy the soap massage,which BLUE HOUSE is the only one that does it,ROYAL which is around the corner from BH in Day Night are also excellent but has table massage.
To answer your question ,you need to get involved,about a quarter of a way thru you can start massaging them or telling them where you want massaged.Remember yes most of them are straight but like any job they get bored.Usually i get them to soap massage me with oils i bring.
Then walk on my back,bend my legs back ,etc,i prefer them helping me stretch as the heat from the hot water and steam loosen the muscles.
Very rarely have i had a guy there for sexual pleasure as most of them are ugly.However i also like to try the massage place opp the tuk shop mall entrance which is Thai body massages.I find the Blue House etc are not good trained masseurs and you have to tell them what you want.
As your looking for sexual pleasure you need to show them what you like rather than just lay there pretending to enjoy it.What is the expected behaviour you ask? Be bad,very bad just like I am and you will enjoy yourself.I only tip them 500b,if there good 1000b.

I am not so much into massage, I go to those places mainly for sexual pleasure. You do need to take initiative, treat him just like any other sexual partner you have. If you are top, you should tell him before you hire him since some of those guys don't bottom.

I don't know if what I generally do counts for standard etiquette, but I do what suits me. In just about all places, the massage boy will give you a 40 - 45 minute massage (or at least his best imitation of a massage), and through that period, I will of course just lie there and let him work on me.

At some point, it will be obvious from either the way he has positioned himself very close to me or sitting on top of me, that the massage is basically over and part 2 is for the asking. Alternatively, he's not on the bed, but his hands are doing not massaging but fondling.

At that point, unless he's very expert at insinuating himself all over me, in which case I will let him take the lead, I will rouse myself and use him for pleasure. What use I put a particular boy to depends a lot on the physical or psychological specifics of the boy, but I generally take the view that the last 20 minutes or so is for me to take the lead. Since I like a lot of full body contact, I generally tug at them and they know they're being asked to come onto the bed. Some are very huggable, others very kissable. Yet others don't really know how to respond to anything, and they just lie there quite dead for the remainder of the term. It's a bit disconcerting, but I still make do with the body that is there before me.

I learnt long ago, that if I didn't seize the initiative, I'm not going to get my money's worth. The guy will be waiting for me to make the first move and I waiting for him.

Newbie,

I think the "etiquette" is whatever the buyer (you) wants. The boys don't know what you want unless you tell them. If you lie down and relax you will probably get only a massage except, perhaps, near the end of the hour when he may try fondling you in hopes of encouraging you to give him a better tip.

If you start the session by actively encouraging sex, then that is probably what you will get.

Personally I usually take the boy off back to my hotel room. The "off" fee is usually slightly less than the massage parlor's normal fee and with the boy gone from his work place you can keep him as long as you like. Also, the boy will bring the oil or creme he needs from the massage parlor. The tip you give the boy should be the same that you would give him if you stayed at the massage parlor. (I suggest 1000 baht)

To a degree it depends on what sort of house you are in. Broadly speaking there are:

1) Places like Albury, Aqua, Narcissus and Hero massage is a euphemism for sex probably with more or less massage foreplay. You choose a boy from a room or a book. You are expected to pay the boy a hefty sum Bt700++? on top of the massage fee. Sometimes boys avoid cumming so they they can take care of subsequent customers.

2) Some places like Sanctuary and Candle T seem to go less far and you will normally get a very good massage and a very happy ending. You can often choose a boy though they may just recommend one. The masseur may or may not go in for full body contact. Tips here are lighter and a few hundred baht seems in order. They work on you so that an erection is virtually impossible to avoid unless you indicate that that is not wanted.

3) Other places are basically Massage only Marble House, Wat Po, Healthland, Babylon! etc. You cannot slelect your masseur but can say if you want a male or female In these places it is usually massage only though there are often entepreneurs who may cautiously do something or will arrange to meet you later. For massage only the tip, if any, is up to you.

I think that Newbie OP is talking about the first category. I think that as others have said, the customer calls the shots and you can expect a good massage and move into other directions when the mood takes you. That is likely to happen sooner if the masseur is not very good. A masseur who want to rush into sex is either one who wants to get things over quickly or one who is driven lustful by your gorgeous body.

I have one of these erotic massages every so often and I've never realised there was any etiquette involved. My skin reacts badly to an oil massage so I always go for cream although frankly I'd prefer an adaptation of traditional Thai ie. pressure - what the more traditional places would describe as "soft". The boy seems to sashay effortlessly from massage to fondling in the final twenty minutes, and sometimes before. I've rarely found one who will "do" anal penetration however, and many won't even do oral. I've been to Adonis in Soi Convent a couple of times in the last six months, and I think BMC (if that's the only massage place in Soi Freeman - whatever it is, don't bother unless you like the clapped-out-go-go-boy-well-past-his-sell-by-date look)

I've yet to meet anyone who's been to Bonny's (next to Dick's Cafe) but I'm interested in hearing reports. Since they've been open around two years now I guess they must be doing something right

I went to Adam and Eve after seeing the video which also featured
Nautilius, the original swimming show. The boys not only swam naked but simulated sex in the pool

But Adan and Eve - The boys used to sit fully clothed on a stage 4 times the size of Topman, and they had waiters who would answer questions about what boys would do, whether they were new , cock size and how good the massage.

I was too shy to ask about sex and just went for the foam, no hands massage.

We arrived in the room and he motioned for me to undress, then shower.
On the table he placed lube and condoms and there were no more questions to ask.

The shower was actually a bath and he got into the bath with me and washed me head to toe. He motioned for me to stay in the bath and laid a blow up camp bed on the floor next to the bath.

He placed about a dozen small pieces of soap into a plastic dish and filled it with warm water, which he then whipped into a lather.

He spread some foam on the blow up and then told me to lay down on my stomach, and then commenced the no hands routine which was not erotic by any means. Gripped my legs between his and slid up and down , the same for the arms. He sat on my back and slid his bum down my legs to my ankles and then reversed and slid his bum from my shoulders to lower back.

I was about to say thats enough when he grabbed my ankles facing the opposite way to me and then slipped his feet under my body and started to massage my chest with the side of his foot I decided to wait until the rollover and call it quits.

With his feet now pushed through to my shoulders and still holding my ankles, he then pushed his body forward massaging my chest with his.

His cock and mine made contact on the push forward and when he pulled back. After 3 times I noticed a change in my attitude and he was starting to rise to the occasion as well.

After half a minute it was time to roll over, he did not have to be asked to
soap my member. He indicated I should do the same to him

We went through the same routine as before . Gripping my arms and legs between his upper legs massaging my chest with his lower arm not hands.

Then sitting on my chest he pushed forward with his bum down to my knees and then returned. You can imagine the contacts that were being made, and the condition we were both in.

Things were starting to hot up. he sat on my upper legs and pushed his bum forward to my chest and back and it was getting difficult to maintain control.

Finally he laid on me chest to chest holding my shoulders with his hands.
He pushed his body back so our erections brushed on the way down and back again and repeated this a dozen times

He smiled and said you shower and showed me the goodies on the table
I had to ask no questions and etiquette did not come into it It was about 45 minutes for part one. He was equally as good on the massage table as well.

Sadly what was one of the first things to do on arrival, to visit Adam and Eve, was dropped as the standard fell away. I have never been to the new premises. If there are some good reports, I might give it another try next trip

Re the massage place next to Dicks in BKK. I had a 1700 flight and decided to have a final empty out so went to this place at midday.
The boys sleep upstairs in the massage rooms. The manager collected them some half asleep still ,for my selection. The boy that I selected I had to suggest he remove his shirt then his jeans before he started.

Still in his jocks, but obviously with a hard onwe finished his strip.
Now as a BFOC, for a young guy to get excited before he is touched is
a compliment and it made for a memorable finish to my trip to LOS

I have very unkind friends that insist that the boy was not turned on by my body but had a morning glory which I am told young men still get.
Whatever, I mean to try a lunch time visit to this place next trip

I use Body Club in Boyztown. They have very cute masseurs, who all have had a massagetraining.
They do what you want them to do. They are naked, when they give you massage and use their body too and their c...
A nice and clean place.

For those who want genuine Thai massage (no happy ending) the Marble House chain (new name, sounds Japanese - a very foolish move as Marble House is well-known brand now) is well worth a visit. I use the one in Suriwong (far end of Soi Wall Street Inn) but the old duck who formerly massaged me on a regular basis has now retired. There is a very good new (boy) masseur there (started this week) - #21, name Jed. I can recommend him. Is he gay? I think so, but since there's no hanky-panky, the question is irrelevant