Cambodia or Thailand?

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Is Phnom Penh or Siem Reap better in terms of gay scene?

Phnom Penh was far better on my last visit.
Far more bars, although Toolbox was the only one that I'd return to.
Several saunas
Lots of massage places, although quality is variable in some of them.
More boys on the apps.

However, anyone going to Cambodia really ought to go to Siem Reap as well for the Angkor Wat complex. Particularly if there is a chance to go with modest numbers of other tourists.