Quote Originally Posted by Oliver2 View Post
I found my own performance to be greatly enhanced when there were signs-both physical and verbal- that my partner was enjoying himself.
This works both ways. Both parties should at least start with a smile.

Reminds me of a lad arriving at my hotel in one Thai town away from the usual gay destinations. He was carrying more weight than I expected and looking particularly miserable. Most lads manage a smile, which I appreciate might not be the easiest thing when meeting someone over twice their age.

However, despite 2 reminders, my miserable visitor still forgot to bring his ID card and therefore I had to send him away. He contacted me about an hour later, but I declined.