That is true in my experience. "Papa sawng" is a standing joke between P and me. And it's not just a joke. It took me nine years of butterflying in Pattaya to learn that I needed more than sex. And, as Dodger says, a visit to his parents' home changed my understanding of the nature of our relationship.
Dodger (March 21st, 2021), Ruthrieston (March 22nd, 2021)
Have you ever given Rupert Murdoch advice on relationships?Originally Posted by a447
Likewise, my butterfly wings stayed firmly glued on my back for 15 years, but eventually, after having interactions with a thousand guys (and only remembering 5 of their names), I started coming to the same conclusion.
I had failed attempts before, understand the landscape, and had no delusions about the age, social, and cultural difference's, but decided to plow ahead anyway. If Tom Hanks could bond with a volley ball named Wilson (movie Cast Away), then I felt anything was possible.
I was married to a younger Thai male in another life who died tragically in 2012. I'll spare you the details. It wasn't until 2014 that Wilson came floating up on the shore...different chemistry...different universe...different shapes...different sizes...different languages...with the one-and-only common link between us being the fact that we were both water-logged and stranded on a shore...looking to bond with something or someone to add some meaning to our lives. We started bonding almost effortlessly...more and more as time passed...until any apprehensions we had regarding our differences just vanished, as if they were just delusions. Strange really!
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