My experience doesn’t go much beyond getting a massage from a boy, so I ran into a bit of a jam last week in Jomtien. I was buying a nice Cambodian boy some drinks at a bar at the Complex, and of course, he wanted to go to the hotel. He was kind of big and an obvious top.

My problem was I was thinking that if we did, he could pump for 5 minutes, say he was done, and that would be that.

Previously, I have gone with ladyboys, and when they say they are done topping me, I top them and finish when I want. But, if I barfine a top boy, when we finish is up to him, the best I can hope for is a HJ afterwards.

So, what am I missing here?