Wow so we've gone from its wrong to assume a guys a hooker without talking to him first to "if he's young ( and in Pattaya) he "must" be a hooker" ......so, we've gone to now being both assumptive AND ageist - and there you were doing so well too until you just undid all your own good work about not instantly judging people :-)Originally Posted by cdnmatt
Last edited by Nirish guy; June 4th, 2016 at 16:58.
a447 (June 4th, 2016), christianpfc (June 5th, 2016), colmx (June 4th, 2016), RiceConnoisseur (June 4th, 2016)
Thanks for the reply and it actually makes sense - also for a 30-something-year-old guy like me :-)
I think maybe in my first post I should have made it more clear that I wasn't objecting to the original post of the thread - that one should't assume that all younger Asian guys are money boys. It was the second post in the thread I didn't like, in which my favourite porn pay site (PrivateBoyMovie) was suddenly attacked as well. I didn't really see the link between those two subjects - a perfectly legal and very popular interracial gay porn pay site featuring beautiful Thai twinks having sex with an older well-endowed white guy - and the "bad manners" among some farangs who assume that each and every Thai boy approaching a white guy for whatever reason is a money boy or a potential money boy. Those two things have nothing to do with each other.
cdnmatt (June 4th, 2016), christianpfc (June 5th, 2016)
Christian, maybe I'm totally in the wrong here, but aren't you the type of creepy farang I'm talking about? You even wrote a whole blog post once about how you almost got mugged, because you were quite persitant in offing some random stranger at a public park in Bangkok. You wouldn't take no for an answer, so they got pissed off, and you almost got mugged out of the ordeal.
Please don't do that type of thing.
If you're somewhere like Pattaya, then it's one thing, because that's basically the world's largest brothel house.
I... I don't know. It's not hard. Ok, the cute 22yo guy from Udon Thani who wants to come to Khon Kaen to meet me without even asking my name? Ok, he would be a money boy. I don't even have to ask him.
The cute 25yo going to MSU who seems like he's happy to just chat? Who the fuck knows... don't go under the assumption he's for sale though, please.
Last edited by cdnmatt; June 4th, 2016 at 21:49.
Not sure how legal it is in Thailand!
I had considerable concern when a young guy who worked in Classic Boys appeared in that series. I had got to know him a bit in the bar and was aware that, being new to the business, he did not enjoy being a bottom, a point which he would make when chatting with customers. You probably then ask what on earth was he doing in a twink bar - and that's a fair point. Obviously it was for cash, which is no doubt what tempted him to agree to appear in the vdo. Yet it is perfectly obvious when you watch it that he is hating every minute. Not once is there anything approaching a smile and at one point there seems to be near fear in his eyes. He quit the gogo business after that. He was a cute and really nice guy who made a wrong choice, and it turned me right off that series.
Well dude, it's Pattaya. Everyone knows why people (workers and tourists) go to Pattaya. For the nice golf courses, obviously.
No problem with it. Heck, I wish I could head to Pattaya for a week vacation, but I'm assuming my dogs would get a little thirsty while I'm away.
But if I'm in Pattaya, and a cute 55kg 21yo starts chatting me up, I'm pretty sure it's not because he's looking for a friend to have coffee with.
I admit I partially hijacked Matt's thread but I believe its part of the same thing : respect
I have no problem with 40/50/60yo white guys fucking asian twinks - what I have a dislike for is the rough, humiliating way in which the boys are penetrated in the Privateboys movies - with the boys being ordered (presumably on pain of not being paid) to expose their battered and gaping arseholes after the "deed" has been done.
I'm sorry if people disagree but I just find that humiliating, sick, and yes - perverted
the thread seems to be all over the place now. I have NO problem getting MB to meet up with me. I will never force a MB to perform a sexual act which he is not happy with, like I would never try to fuck him if he's not a bottom. When in BKK and Pattaya I would say that 99% of the grindr messages I get from A1 class "boys" are MB who self identify without any prompting from my side.
To call me a creep due to the fact that I enjoy dominating a MB is well....an opinion!!
If he agrees to meet up claiming to be a bottom and cant handle a good arse pounding well that really is his problem and not mine. Im not talking about using dildos or fisting or any objects besides my dick.
I do enjoy the look of "surprise" on a MB face when he realises that he;s in for a 2 hour intensive session and that we're not here to make love or cuddle.
Really dont think I'm crossing the line with any of my activities, he's a MB, a whore, and he's job is to satisfy me. he's needs or pleasure are immaterial unless one gets pleasure out of his pleasure, I dont, I want him to know he's being used.
One could claim that its mental/phsycological abuse.....but nah!! I reckon that just admitting u r a MB already places u in a subservient position.
christianpfc (June 5th, 2016)
scotty boy....do u really believe that the performers dont know what they r signing up for??
Fountainhall....u always seem to have a sob story.
Latin, no... no problem if he's actually a MB. Well, with how you purport treat them, yeah... whatever. Nonetheless, that would be a MB, so good to go.
Issue is, seems as though some farangs go to Pattaya and places on vacation, have sex 3 times a day, etc. When they're horny, they just go to the local massage shop, or go-go bar, or whatever. No problems at all with that, and it's great fun. I've done it lots myself, and it's an awesome time.
Problem is, sometimes you guys end up up here, and export that ideology. For some reason, in some people's thick skulls you believe just because it's so easy in Pattaya, then every cute, brown skinned guy in Issan must be for sale.
This causes me to have to resort to phrases such as, "I'm sorry, but please know, I'm not like those other farangs" and more. It's kind of embarrassing.
Last edited by cdnmatt; June 5th, 2016 at 05:26.
Agree....mostly. But I have been known to proposition 7/11 employees on a slow afternoon when there are no/few customers and they have made an effort to chat with me. I dont offer money but invite then back to my room and have had some success with this. Funnily enough the ones that agree almost all end up expecting a reward!!!! So even when I try to cruise one in the " normal" way it still ends up being a MB. Must admit the ones I chat are usually gorgeous/fit specimens....so that could also be to blame. Not like I'm gonna waste my time with mr average joe from next door.
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