While it is a popular western view that 'falling in love' or 'romantic love' is a natural part of the human condition, others say it is merely cultural conditioning. Some psychologists say it was invented 800 years ago, others that it exists but is a rare experience in older cultures, somewhat akin to temporary insanity!

Now I am certain that Thai mothers love their children the same way Western mothers do, and friends love each other, and there is sexual love, and familial love etc. And I know to that Thais place a greater emphasis on the practicality of a relationship but what I'm really interested in is if 'romantic love' or 'limerence' or 'infatuation' is a foreign concept to Thais?

When I ask a Thai boy if he loves me (in a romantic way), is it a meaningless question? The same as if he asked me if I have 'lost face'? A near-meaningless concept in my culture.

I'm curious to hear the opinions of those more familiar with Thai culture than I.

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