bucknaway
December 24th, 2011, 05:36
Many of us complain about the people we meet while in Thailand and I have spied some people doing things that could be described as lowlife, crude and piggish. It is possible that I don't know the whole story. Like the time I was in a gogo bar and came in just in time to see the guys rotate on the tables, one of the guys was talking and I guess, flirting with a customer who turned the guy around and began to yank down his shorts leaving him with only his socks on his feet and his hands covering his nakedness. Once the guy was stripped nude, the customer finished his drink as he rose from his seat and walked out of the bar with a smile on his face.
I thought it was an act of rudeness and poor taste but maybe I don't know the full story. Maybe those two have an understanding that I, being a short time holiday maker, know nothing about. As I think back on that event, I don't remember the stripped guy being upset. The host didn't seem to care and no one was surprised other than me. So maybe there was more to it than meets the eye.
Then there was the guys I met while going to the bars. I met some truly nice guys who were fellow customers in the gogo bars. Many of them I met at Happy Place. On this trip I had won 2000 baht credit at Happy Place but had a hard time using it because guys I met at the bar would pay my tab for me. So I would go in, order my drink, a drink for the guy I would invite from the stage. During my time there I would find myself having a pleasant conversation with a fellow customer sitting near me. If I liked them enough I would buy them a drink and have the bill put in my check-bin, but before they would leave they would reach over and grab the checks from my bin when they were paying for their drinks. It happened so often that I had to play defense when it came to my checks to keep them out of the hands of guys who wanted to pick up my tab for me.
Another time at Happy Place... I was sitting in the back talking with a guy who was on his final night in Pattaya. We decided to go see another show at a different bar once the was started and ended at Happy Place. I went to the mens room and when I was in there a very handsome Thai guy entered and I could tell right away that he was shy. Everything about him told me that he was not from Pattaya. He was dressed as if he were an office worker or going on an interview. As I passed him on my way out, we both seem to smile and nod at each other. I rejoined my new friend and was surprised to find that the cute guy from the bathroom returned to sit next to his Thai friend in the seat in front of me.
Before me and my new friend left the bar, I struck up a conversation with the two Thai guys sitting in front of me to find that they were both on vacation from Bangkok and were returning in the morning. I asked them were they were going after leaving Happy Place to be told they were going to sleep. I told them where me and my new friend were going. The cute guy I liked asked me what time we were going and I told him "10 Minutes from now." He pulled out his phone and I asked to see his phone. Once he handed me his phone I used it to call my phone. He had a pleased look on his smiling face when I handed him back his phone and once we left the bar I sent him a SMS telling him it was very nice to meet him.
Well... They both followed us to the bar I told them we were going to but they didn't stay long and after they left I received a sms from him telling me to contact him when I arrive in Bangkok. Once the show was over, my new friend and I parted ways. I can't say for sure but I am certain that I finished the night walking up and down walking street before I took the baht bus back to Jomtien beach to go back to my room.
Well I did get to meet my friend in Bangkok once he got off work. We went on a date and it had to be one of the best moments of my life. There was no guarantee of sex so I had to work hard to charm him out of his pants and into my bed. We ended the date back at my hotel where we touched, kissed and and did as much as we could do with our clothes on. Yes, some buttons became undone and zippers were lowered but that was as far as it went. We said good night to each other and made plans for a 2nd date to follow.
Our second date almost didn't happen due to the floods but it did happen. We had dinner at a yuppy style Thai restaurant on one of the side streets of Silom. Had a coffee at Silom Complex and returned to my room where we watched the news about the flood. As we watched the news I pulled off his shoes and began to massage his feet. He made himself more comfortable on the sofa as I moved my massage further up his legs. He complimented my efforts. We continued to watch the news as I massaged him and ply random light kisses to his sexy legs. He excused himself to the shower and came out in a towel. I also took a shower and invited him to the bedroom to continue the massage. By then it was dark so I was able to light candles and play some of my favorite jazz music. For 2 hours I massaged his body from the bottom of his feet to the tips of his ears and everyplace in-between before our towels were removed and I did my best as doing a body to body oil massage where I was rewarded with groans of satisfaction and desire. We did everything that night. Some things twice and when I think back on that night with him I remember it as being nothing short of magic.
We still keep in touch by way of SMS. Just a random sms here and there as I know he can not afford to waste money.
There are other memories of nice guys I have met while in Thailand. I met a few from this board that were a lot of fun to be around. I met so many people and had so many adventures... It would take my many, many posts and many many days to tell the tales of my Thailand holiday.
The truth is that this trip was supposed to be my last trip to Thailand but I had so much fun and left before I could get to the weekend market or Chinatown due to the flood that I am planning to return again in 2012
I didn't get to meet any kickboxers fresh from the fight and didn't get hit on by anymore police officers and no one tried to rape me but this trip had to be the best vacation I have had in Thailand so far.
The one sad thing is that my return trip will only be 2 weeks long as I won't be able to take 4 week off from work as I am use to.
I thought it was an act of rudeness and poor taste but maybe I don't know the full story. Maybe those two have an understanding that I, being a short time holiday maker, know nothing about. As I think back on that event, I don't remember the stripped guy being upset. The host didn't seem to care and no one was surprised other than me. So maybe there was more to it than meets the eye.
Then there was the guys I met while going to the bars. I met some truly nice guys who were fellow customers in the gogo bars. Many of them I met at Happy Place. On this trip I had won 2000 baht credit at Happy Place but had a hard time using it because guys I met at the bar would pay my tab for me. So I would go in, order my drink, a drink for the guy I would invite from the stage. During my time there I would find myself having a pleasant conversation with a fellow customer sitting near me. If I liked them enough I would buy them a drink and have the bill put in my check-bin, but before they would leave they would reach over and grab the checks from my bin when they were paying for their drinks. It happened so often that I had to play defense when it came to my checks to keep them out of the hands of guys who wanted to pick up my tab for me.
Another time at Happy Place... I was sitting in the back talking with a guy who was on his final night in Pattaya. We decided to go see another show at a different bar once the was started and ended at Happy Place. I went to the mens room and when I was in there a very handsome Thai guy entered and I could tell right away that he was shy. Everything about him told me that he was not from Pattaya. He was dressed as if he were an office worker or going on an interview. As I passed him on my way out, we both seem to smile and nod at each other. I rejoined my new friend and was surprised to find that the cute guy from the bathroom returned to sit next to his Thai friend in the seat in front of me.
Before me and my new friend left the bar, I struck up a conversation with the two Thai guys sitting in front of me to find that they were both on vacation from Bangkok and were returning in the morning. I asked them were they were going after leaving Happy Place to be told they were going to sleep. I told them where me and my new friend were going. The cute guy I liked asked me what time we were going and I told him "10 Minutes from now." He pulled out his phone and I asked to see his phone. Once he handed me his phone I used it to call my phone. He had a pleased look on his smiling face when I handed him back his phone and once we left the bar I sent him a SMS telling him it was very nice to meet him.
Well... They both followed us to the bar I told them we were going to but they didn't stay long and after they left I received a sms from him telling me to contact him when I arrive in Bangkok. Once the show was over, my new friend and I parted ways. I can't say for sure but I am certain that I finished the night walking up and down walking street before I took the baht bus back to Jomtien beach to go back to my room.
Well I did get to meet my friend in Bangkok once he got off work. We went on a date and it had to be one of the best moments of my life. There was no guarantee of sex so I had to work hard to charm him out of his pants and into my bed. We ended the date back at my hotel where we touched, kissed and and did as much as we could do with our clothes on. Yes, some buttons became undone and zippers were lowered but that was as far as it went. We said good night to each other and made plans for a 2nd date to follow.
Our second date almost didn't happen due to the floods but it did happen. We had dinner at a yuppy style Thai restaurant on one of the side streets of Silom. Had a coffee at Silom Complex and returned to my room where we watched the news about the flood. As we watched the news I pulled off his shoes and began to massage his feet. He made himself more comfortable on the sofa as I moved my massage further up his legs. He complimented my efforts. We continued to watch the news as I massaged him and ply random light kisses to his sexy legs. He excused himself to the shower and came out in a towel. I also took a shower and invited him to the bedroom to continue the massage. By then it was dark so I was able to light candles and play some of my favorite jazz music. For 2 hours I massaged his body from the bottom of his feet to the tips of his ears and everyplace in-between before our towels were removed and I did my best as doing a body to body oil massage where I was rewarded with groans of satisfaction and desire. We did everything that night. Some things twice and when I think back on that night with him I remember it as being nothing short of magic.
We still keep in touch by way of SMS. Just a random sms here and there as I know he can not afford to waste money.
There are other memories of nice guys I have met while in Thailand. I met a few from this board that were a lot of fun to be around. I met so many people and had so many adventures... It would take my many, many posts and many many days to tell the tales of my Thailand holiday.
The truth is that this trip was supposed to be my last trip to Thailand but I had so much fun and left before I could get to the weekend market or Chinatown due to the flood that I am planning to return again in 2012
I didn't get to meet any kickboxers fresh from the fight and didn't get hit on by anymore police officers and no one tried to rape me but this trip had to be the best vacation I have had in Thailand so far.
The one sad thing is that my return trip will only be 2 weeks long as I won't be able to take 4 week off from work as I am use to.