oh dear gaybutton, you come across as cynical as me...maybe if i lived in Thailand I would have time to get to know locals and establish relationships & trust...but as a tourist who never stays more than 2 weeks my only objective is fresh butt every day...at least 2 a day...i dont wanna know their names or their life history or how many sick buffalos they have...in fact Id rather they not speak except to say "yes" to my every demand...my motto is ' fuck & go"....