In some ways this relates to this issue of finding/ maintaining happiness in Thailand, but I didn't want to take that thread off on a tangent. I think learning the Thai language is both a good activity to get yourself involved in something other than just beach, bars & boys, and it's also bound to make you feel a little less alienated from everyone you deal with everyday.
I have a smattering of self-learned Thai. My friend is a constant source of encouragement as I try to learn more ("Better you just speak English") and I've even made a few somewhat short-lived attacks on the alphabet so that on a good day, with a great deal of prodding, I can write either the word for "tea" or the one for "elephant" or, more often, a single word that sort of combines the two.
I read an interesting article in the Economist recently that claimed the ability to deal successfully with tonal languages is genetic. On yet another front my genes have failed me, I guess. Even on those rare occasions when I know exactly what to say, I get the impression that people think I'm speaking Russian.
Being realistic it's doubtful I will ever be fluent in speaking Thai, but there's still hope I may be able to understand a little more of what I hear (thus lifting the veil of mystery shrouding those Thai soaps that we always seem to find ourselves watching on TV) and better able to read basic things.
SO, in order to bring a little more discipline to my study of Thai , I'm looking for a Thai tutor in Pattaya. It would need to be someone with gobs of patience as well as someone who has a clue how to teach a language, not just learn 10 new randomly chosen words a day. Any suggestions would be welcome.