Friend of mine who passed away recently had made a point of staying in Saphan Kwai
He liked the thai style gay bars where the boys do not dance and dressed only in street clothes.
It is a long time since I was there and the main reason for visiting, was Midnight Cowboy
Naughty but nice reminded me with his new bar in bangkok post, but I do not know where he was talking about.
The hotel was gay friendly, close to the Saphan Kwai bars and the skytrain
Last time I was there, I stayed in a hotel that was owned by one of the owners of Utopia. The previous time, I think utopia was on the ground floor of a smaller hotel somewhere near Soi Cowboy.
I feel like a change next trip and am open to suggestions.