I posted the below on another forum but thought I would add it here in case anyone here had any experience to share ( and as there are no replies on the other forum yet)
So, someone had commented about several things they had been asked for by The British Embassy when trying to get a holiday visa for their Thai (boy)friend and one of the items was the elusive ...... "A letter from me to Guarantee his stay"
So, I've often heard this guarantee letter being talked about and from the little I know about it I understand it basically to be a letter saying that you are and will be and accept responsibility for all and any repatriation costs should your Thai (boy)friend choose to dump you and take off to live somewhere else in your Country overstaying his visa until such times as he's either caught by immigration and / or decides to return to Thailand in his own good time, or perhaps you and he simply decide that he's going to remain with you illegally and you in effect hide him in the UK he never returns to Thailand - again until he's caught no doubt.
So a) am I right about the overall guarantee part of the letter IS a basic guarantee from you as outlined above or is there more to it than that with perhaps you also being liable for him for things like legal and health cover (i.e. paying for NHS treatment if so required or what if he gets arrested for fighting and ends up in the legal system - is that at your expense too etc ?)
Then b) I've also heard all sorts of horror stories about just how much the amount of money may actually be that is required to be guaranteed or what it could possibly / usually end up at, but does anyone have any knowledge of that ACTUAL figure should your BF decide to take off and leave you in the crap with you having to pick up the pieces after he decides to take off and go work the bars in your home city selling his ass to make his fortune !?
And I guess lastly c) if your boyfriend DID decide to land you in the crap by taking off on you and is picked up and deported (or returns to the airport 5 months later as an overstayer just perhaps) IS the guarantee clause ACTUALLY physically enforced and DO you REALLY get an invoice from UK Immigration for ┬гXX??? amount of money or does this just not happen in real life and you just hear no more about it?
I ask these questions as once or twice I have thought of bringing a Thai friend over and so signing such a letter would be required ( I'm told, is THAT actually true too ?? ) but the whole grey area surrounding this ( in terms of my own knowledge more than anything probably) and what sounds to be a totally open ended nightmare of a letter (that has never seen actually been seen or signed by anyone I know here in the UK anyway?) AND added to that all the various (bar) stories I've been told late at night in smokey bars in Bkk of farang having to fork out ┬г40,000 and ┬г50,000 after almost unlimited bills have been sent to them on their boy taking off to earn some money whilst in their Country was enough to scare the pants of me and I very quickly re thought the whole plan, but all of these stories always seem to involve a " friend of a friend" and not the person I'm speaking to so which the breadth of experience here can anyone on the board shed some "actual" factual advice and experience about that whole end of things and or even better perhaps share some personal experience of same perhaps ( either good or bad) about basically IS there a physical letter, is it enforced and for approximately how much should the worst happen ???
And before anyone urges i exercise huge caution before even thinking about bringing a bar boy here etc don't worry it wasn't a bar boy I was relating this too at the time ( or so he told me anyway) - but hey it's Bangkok, who knows eh ! :-)