I started this topic after reading What Jellybean wrote on the "sex/lies " topic --he was talking about what a boy told him what he was recieving from farangs every month or so
So i think it would be interesting to see how many of us do or have done in the past re sending money to guys here (we dont have to get into exact payments ,thats private i think )
-- i myself dont think its as common as its percieved --ie that most/all thai boys have us all like a bank so it were sending money every month or so
Ok il start
-- in the first 7/8 years coming here to Thailand i Never sent money to guys here --Not one time -- !!(and i am the opposite to mean )
i tend to be cynical and never got involved with boys i met while holidaying here once i departed the shores-- apart from the odd email etc
--nor did i ever buy gold chains/ phones /jeans etc --
I als pay the guys well and thats as far for me as i would let get !! (although plenty Tried to get me to shops !!! to no avail !!!)
When i met my first Bf here we spoke a hell of a lot about what he wanted to do with his life so i started giving him a weekly allowance !( i tried to get him into the habit of saving money for the future etc -- and with him it worked !! )
The allowance was given with the stipend that i was never to be asked for extra for family etc --he also worked in Tiffaney show as a male dancer so was earning money himself
It worked v well and after the first yeAR he had enough saved to pay for the first year and half uni --where he still is to this day --although he is my EX (my doing not his )i will finish paying for the rest of his fees (i made that deal with him at the start )- And I was so proud of him the first time i went to his uni to see him take part in a event there !!!I really think and hope he will be a sucess in something - that will give me great satisfaction if he does
A long time resident friend of mine told me once --you cant help them all -But if you can make a difference for some of them in their lives here then thats a very good thing --i tend to agree with that !!
Bf no 2 -- ive done same with him -- weekly allowance/stipend etc -- thats going on now for 5/6 months or so ,
Ok so thats me ,in 11 odd years or so ive given money to 2 boys on a reg basis ---
Who else gives money to the guys here on a reg basis ??-- im just trying to actually see if a lot of guys get money like that ??