Toms, katoeys and ladyboys as waiters in go go's. Why?

[witchhunt]

Several friends have sworn to never return to MicMys after clashes with the Ladyboys and Toms who are waiters and part mamasan. It has been a problem for many years but this time MicMy seems to have got out of hand.

Several weeks ago with the persistent waiter[ess] interupting all the time --you take boy- drink me- tip me ,I had to get quite rude. I got angrier when the boy I was about to invite off stage , she went to him pulled the front of his shorts down and fondled his erection. That had the opposite effect on me. I left. Have told this many times since and it is a common complaint about the poorly managed bars.

I have a friend who gets wound up over the Toms that ran a certain bar that had a chequered history, located between Corner bar and Krazy Dragon. They were rude to clients and boys, thought they were important and maybe the owner was sleeping wih one or all. But who needs boys who want to be girls, or men hating lesbians, in charge of go go bars. After all you dont get girls handing out towels in saunas.

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Hi,

My recollection of the bar you refer to, and I am sure I have the right one, it used to be on the roadside and open very late into the night, it was run by lesbians and it had a Karaoke affair upstairs.

I used to drink there but seldom bothered taking off after about four failures in that bar.

I used to find a lot of the guys there downright lazy and they would prefer to scam drinks and tips in preference to going off. When they did go, the common excuse of them all was ' I don't do that, I man, I man! ' and this was a ploy used by nearly all of them. They were largely rubbish and not worth 100 baht let alone 1000 baht. I remember the days of Adam and Eve bar and if they didn't do the lot, they would be fired!!

The lesbians were connected to the female owner who was seldom there and had other businesses in Pattaya. I can only imagine the pulling down of shorts etc is no more than a power play to show dominance over the boys working there. It didn't used to be like that when it was a host/Karaoke bar.

However, I agree they shouldn't be running the bar if that's what they are up to. That is in sharp contrast to your comment on ladyboys working as waiters. It's a usual and common occurrence for them after they are past their ' sell by date ' to work as waiters, they are gay males after all. It's no different to the males moving on to be taxi motorbike drivers. They need employment and options are limited due to their lack of education.

You may find if you are direct with them, in the future they will leave you alone. You have to be as stubborn and strong as they are. Again, I agree with you if it were ladyboys pulling down the shorts, it's probably someone they fancy and an excuse to have a free grope!! That doesn't excuse their bad manners, but as I have said before about them, they are polite but they have no manners!!

[Brisboy82]

I wanted to slap that lesbian in the face last night. She acts so miserable and keep demanding drinks and demands
A tip (for what??). And then she gets angry with me as if the fact that I don't take a boy is a personal attack on her. So mug pressure. Why you not take boy? You need to take boy now!

Fucking hell!!

So funny you should
Mention it

I have the perfect answer for you all!
Come visit happy Place where we serve good drinks, good music, hot strong boys, and the waiters and staff will not ask for a tip or a drink! Happy Place..... a different kind of bar.
arty

[Brisboy82]

I have the perfect answer for you all!
Come visit happy Place where we serve good drinks, good music, hot strong boys, and the waiters and staff will not ask for a tip or a drink! Happy Place..... a different kind of bar.
arty

Yes that's what I like about happy place.

The nagging staff at mic my make me not want to even walk past there as I get harassed if they spot me. Not very smart business tactics. Walking around sunee is enough of a hassle at the best of times but mic my takes it even further.

I have had poor experiences in this gogo as well. The boys are sweet but the mamasan is a greedy gay Thai. He/she/it always sits with me and after a few minutes requests a drink. The last time I went she left her drink at my table went to another table which just walked in and got a drink from them, then after several minutes came back to retreive the drink I got her. The same problem the previous year when this mamasan was 2nd in command and a pretty ladyboy was mamasan, she was exactly the same. I prefer the gogo right next door, the boys look the same, the mama/waiter do not speak english or sit with you more then a minute or 2, and never request drinks

As for Lesbians being mentioned, I've not been there in 2 months but have never seen any Lesbos working that bar.

I've never found the waiters a problem as I always get nabbed by the short 30/40yo Thai guy in Mic My who says he's the owner - is he or isn't he?

:dontknow: :dontknow:

Incidentally - he's very friendly and always says hello (just in case anybody is wondering) :sign5:

[Manforallseasons]

Those that have said they had negative experiences here seem to be intimidated by the owners, severs , and mamasans, why? It's your dime and your time, say no, go away or if need be fuck off! Havinging said that as a customer if the bar is busy and you linger over one drink forever your not much better, if you take a guy from the stage you're obliged to buy him a drink, if he turns out to be not what you expected give him 100 Bht tip for his time, as you prevented others from possibly being with him.

[witchhunt]

I've never found the waiters a problem as I always get nabbed by the short 30/40yo Thai guy in Mic My who says he's the owner - is he or isn't he?

:dontknow: :dontknow:

Incidentally - he's very friendly and always says hello (just in case anybody is wondering) :sign5:

a kind of nodding acquaintance

:sign5:

[newalaan]

Several friends have sworn to never return to MicMys after clashes with the Ladyboys and Toms who are waiters and part mamasan

I would agree that the non-dancing staff there can be a pain in the arse somtimes, by the time you say 'hello' to the boss, mamasans, M the tip and drink beggar, waiters known from previous bars there is hardly time to enjoy the 'dancers' especially since they all ask exactly the same question and already know a member of management/waiting staff has already sat with you and asked all there is to ask.

A good deal of it is just them 'doing their jobs' but there are too many of them hanging around. Personally I have known some of them long enough to just shew them away and tell them I just want to enjoy the atmosphere and the dancers on my own (with a smile of course). The other thing i will say if they are persistant is 'how can I have a boy come sit with me if you are sitting where he should be...bye!. But i would never, not go back, just because of that. It's still a fun place though the agogo bar next door is better.