I have been living in Thailand almost 3 years and I still cannot answer this question, can any of you?
I have been living in Thailand almost 3 years and I still cannot answer this question, can any of you?
The question itself begs for generalizations...is that really going to be useful? They think none of us can eat spicy food.Originally Posted by The Equalizer
The bar boys seem to think we're all gullible: I love you, you're my boyfriend (after a day or two). "What about the pictures and love letters in your room from the Swedish guy?" He's just a friend. "Sure"
You are right it might be too broad. Perhaps one's own experiences would be better. Thanks but I had in mind the general public!Originally Posted by mlomker
I think this is a worthwhile question, something that I have asked myself and my Thai friend.
Not sure how he perceives me but he once said " why you farang and not Thai same-same me"?.
I took it as a complement.
You would be wrong to generalize such a question.
The Thais are very adept at spotting the difference between low-lifes (such as those that inhabit the dark corners of Sunee Plaza and Tesco-Lotus mens' rooms) and those who are actually well-educated, well-mannered, and contributing to society.
And they do treat the two very differently indeed.
Especially if they are seen to be hanging around in open beer bars, drunk most of the time, and are known to treat the bar-boys with disdain.Originally Posted by Singapore Sexpat
Farangs who run large businesses, pay taxes and employ a number of Thai's are as you say treated very differently, as are those that have retired in LOS and don't frequent the "seedier side of town" on a regular basis.
franscois Interesting comment!
Especially if they are seen to be hanging around in open beer bars, drunk most of the time, and are known to treat the bar-boys with disdain.Originally Posted by sanook
Farangs who run large businesses, pay taxes and employ a number of Thai's are as you say treated very differently, as are those that have retired in LOS and don't frequent the "seedier side of town" on a regular basis.[/quote
For the most part I Agree with you, but Thailand is not only Pattaya and perhaps other places and the people their have a different perception .
[quote="Singapore Sexpat"]You would be wrong to generalize such a question.
The Thais are very adept at spotting the difference between low-lifes (such as those that inhabit the dark corners of Sunee Plaza and Tesco-Lotus mens' rooms) and those who are actually well-educated, well-mannered, and contributing to society.
And they do treat the two very differently indeed.[/quote
Yes but I don not think Sunni Plaza typifies the rest of Thailand. Do you?
[quote=The Equalizer][/quote:1ql3d329]Originally Posted by "Singapore Sexpat":1ql3d329
No. Your point?
MY point is that Thais can tell the difference between a low-life farang and a decent farang -- and treat them accordingly. Therefore, there is no one way that "farangs are perceived by Thais in general".
If you can't understand, please get back to me and I'll draw you a diagram in crayola.