Two comments you made that seemed to speak volumes:
Originally Posted by
cdnmatt
I honestly don't know, and haven't bothered asking, because well, I don't particularly care.
and
Originally Posted by
cdnmatt
... he loves going, and it's important to him.
Obviously not my place to judge (so I'm not), but if I've learned anything in this life it's that communication is the key to
any relationship - family, professional, personal or romantic partnerships.
It would seem that an understanding of a person's spiritual thinking and preferences is equally as important as an understanding of the nuances of their food, music or sexual preferences, if not more so. For example, saying to someone "I don't understand how you can stand curry that spicy" might not cause much of a ripple, but saying "all that bowing and scraping you do in the temple is ridiculous" can often do lasting damage on a deeper level.
Again, I'm not accusing you of being emotionally abusive to this person you speak of as the beginnings of a real relationship, but I'd suggest you make an attempt to understand this part of his life a little better. Who knows, you might gain something from it. Goodness knows Western religions have done far more than their share of emotional, physical and financial damage to the world.
Hopefully you were just making a small joke?