NIrish, you and I are very different. You seem to lean toward the latintop approach (no offence to either of you, that's what you like). I don't have a problem with the fact that you and LP are in Thailand for as many fucks as you can get. But that's not my style. Yes, I've had one night stands, but I tend to hang onto a guy I if I really like him.
This guy from Si Saket is the 2nd person I've genuinely loved in my life. The first didn't work out after about a year (latintop, feel free not to comment on this thread).
So I genuinely loved him. and still do. I can't wait to see him in January, with or without his wife. His parents I really like, and had a great holiday up in Si Saket.
Would I prefer to drink away a couple of hundred Euro being the sad bastard of Sunee, or spend time with his family? I think you can guess the answer to that.