frequent, as far as I can remember (not far, admittedly) you don't post about your escapades in Thailand in any great detail. So I have no idea about your relationship history. You may well have a partner in farangland. christian, on the other hand, posts about his attempts to connect with Thai guys, and they all seem to fail to meet his standards. Surely after a number of years living in Thailand, he would have adjusted his attitude? Just my 2 satang worth.