Pattaya report Oct 2018

[a447]

No Latin, I haven't "mellowed" at all.

As I said, the sex is very important. We still have sex twice a day but it's now just a part of what we do.

Isn't that the same with you and your long-term partner? I'm sure you don't spend the whole time together just having sex.

My reputation precedes me, but if you read any of my trip reports over all these years, you'll notice that I only ever have sex twice a day, no more. For me, that's enough. So I have to find other things to do. And more importantly, I need a guy with whom I want to do these things. It's easy to find guys for sex but very difficult to find someone you want to spend the whole day with during a holiday.

I've been lucky enough to find someone, that's all.

In the early days of visiting Thailand I was top only. But I am only interested in masculine guys in their mid -twenties or older and finding a straight guy willing to bottom was difficult. The guys I topped back then were not really my type - they were often a little too "gay" for my tastes. Every now and then I'd meet a bit masculine guy who was willing to bottom but they weren't the type I wanted to spend my holiday with and so never became regulars.

Becoming a bottom was not an easy decision but I eventually took the plunge so that others could. And sex-wise it's been the best decision I think I've ever made.

I'm certainly not suggesting that everyone goes out and learns how to put their ankles behind their ears; all I know it's that it has worked for me. To be honest, at first there was a certain stigma attached to bottoming, but that has now completely disappeared.

Last holiday Nom was still working in a bar in Jomtien Complex with his brother, but he told me he was trying out a job at a resort hotel. If things worked out, he would leave the scene in Pattaya and take the job on full-time. And that's what he has done.

When I'm back home we still communicate using Line. When he was still working here he'd tell me about the farang he'd met and how many offs he'd managed to score during the week. But customers were few and far between and he was struggling. My suggestion that he go back to Eros or Nice Boys was rejected outright.

He is obviously still a money boy, albeit now part-time - the fact that he comes to Pattaya to meet me proves that. But when he's with me he is not being paid his hotel wage. If you subtract that from the tips he gets from me each day, he is still ahead but not by as much as you'd think. That's one of the reasons I offer to buy him things.

[Nirish guy]

My reputation precedes me

it SO does !! :-)

[sglad]

Last holiday Nom was still working in a bar in Jomtien Complex with his brother, but he told me he was trying out a job at a resort hotel. If things worked out, he would leave the scene in Pattaya and take the job on full-time. And that's what he has done...

He is obviously still a money boy, albeit now part-time - the fact that he comes to Pattaya to meet me proves that. But when he's with me he is not being paid his hotel wage.

Out of curiosity, how does Num get time off to spend days at a time with you? Thai bosses are not very generous in granting leave and hotels in particular invest a lot in staff training - even low-level staff - to want to let their staff come and go as they please. And they don't hire off-the-truck daily-rated workers because of their lack of training and also for security reasons.

I've met farangs with their supposedly employed significant others or special 'friends' who seem to be able to take off work for days and weeks at a time whenever the farang is in town. I'm curious as I have Thai friends who work in schools, banks and private firms who find it tough to get a day off to attend the funeral of a loved one and maybe get a week of vacation time per year (most of them have been at their jobs for less than five years).