Originally Posted by
catawampuscat
It is a game and fun to play as long as you don't take it too seriously.
Reality is these are poor undereducated boys that we spoil outrageously and overindulge trying to buy their
affection, make them like us and for the really delusional , make them love us.
Forget about mirrors, forget about 50 year age differences, forget about being unable to speak to each other,
This boy is different, this is real, not a game, like with the other fat, old, passed it farangs you see and you know
because you never feel so strongly before, not so intensely but alas it is all part of a game..
And the winner is the boy with the most besotted farangs hanging on every phone call and believing any yarn one
spins. It is pathetic but it is a curse and a sickness and most of us recover after the first time but some love junkies
keep on shelling out the mobiles, motorbikes, gold, and cash and buy into every story when they ask the boy in
all seriousness, "honey , do you need any money?" and the boy comes up with another reason for the magical
transfusion of money from the fat old fart into their account.
It is a game and when you learn how to play, it can be lots of fun. I usually just laugh when a boy tries the bullshit on me
and ask them "how is your problem with (pick any crisis) my problem?" The Thais con each other all the time and it is just
a face saving polite way to "borrow" money but has become a fine art with deep pocketed delusional farangs..
If you can't afford to play, just say so and when the boy realizes that the money tree has lost its leaves, they move on to other ones.
It is a game.. have fun, fuck your brains out, party hardy and move on when the bullshit gets too thick.
It is hard to believe when you are obsessed with your first true love, but there are more fish in this sea than can even be imagined
and the sea is refilled daily with lots of fresh fish waiting to be hooked and adored..... :cat: