My Ex-wife is living proof that what you say is correct, and she's a real sweetheart. My kids still refer to her as "Darcy Vader".
Now that I'm living the life as a "Happy Homo" I'm more than content dividing my existence equally between "Reality" and "Fantasy". I only wish I had learned this much sooner in life. In "Reality" HE'S with me every day and night...rocks my world in bed...and is the most trustworthy companion I've ever had in my life. The "Fantasy" part comes in where I pretend that it's all about LOVE and body chemistry, and in the event my money ran out and I couldn't provide him with financial security anymore things would remain the same.
I was telling a friend of mine once about the screaming orgasm this boy I was with had one night. My friend said "he was probably faking". My response was: "Worked for me".