Look!
The plane, the plane...
Look!
The plane, the plane...
Yes and I believe he invented Pilates too. I may be wrong.
i know of no gay couples that are monogamous or enjoy sex with one another if they have been together for more than 3 or so years....
maump (September 14th, 2022)
Well, you do now.
Jai and I have been in a monogamous relationship for 6-1/2 years now and enjoy sex as much now as when we first met...maybe more.
To your point, most gay relationships seem to fall apart after 2 years or so for the very reasons you mentioned. If one or both of the people in the relationship isn't being fulfilled (sexually) it would only make sense that they would part ways.
I enjoyed 15 years of Butterfly life in Thailand to the max. Seriously, no regrets whatsoever...hundreds of boys (if not more)...loved the thrill of the chase...spontaneity...variety, etc., but there comes a time (at least for me there did) where I wanted something more.
All of my expat friends over here are unhitched butterfly's. Some seem content with their lifestyles, and some seem discontent and bored. I guess it's just a matter of each person finding what works best for them.
Oliver2 (October 3rd, 2020), pasiontop (December 12th, 2020), Smiles (October 3rd, 2020), splinter1949 (October 3rd, 2020)
Thank you for your advice. Maybe one day I will try something different. But now I really prefer boys to fuck me (or sometimes fuck them), just for the pleasure.
I am sure that you have good fun with your partner but on my side I simply could not stay with the same boy more than very short time. Its a question of taste.
Dodger (October 4th, 2020)
As RuPaul says, if you can’t love yourself how can you love somebody else?
On the other hand I’ve long believed that being childless gives couples the opportunity to explore options other than the heterosexual monogamy model for relationships - hence “open” relationships, throuples, polyamory- the whole gamut of relationship possibilities.
Guys, for centuries philosophers have been musing about the difference about "love" and "lust" and the relationship between the two. I doubt if we will solve the debate here!
I do agree totally with Dodger that those who scorn "human mating" for the sheer pleasure of orgasm are missing out on a totally different and much more interesting experience. Why not order a blow-up sex doll instead? Or jack-off in the comfort of your bed without all the muss and fuss and expense?
None of us will ever quite solve this mystery but I can observe that most males seem mature over the years from wanting to fuck anything that breathes to becoming slightly more introspective about the sex act.
Dodger (October 4th, 2020)
I'm sure many of us are much more used to FaceTime/LINE/Skype/Zoom/Teams now, but as most of us have realised they only cater for two of the five senses. They don't satisfy our need for the taste, smell or touch of real, live human beings.Originally Posted by Marc K
christianpfc (October 4th, 2020)