...oh here I go again...I do use additives...I do enjoy viagra/kamagra on the odd occasion...
I want to clarify that I don't fuck with money boys. I don't pay for money. I'm young and quite attractive IMHO All of these encounters have been with attractive young guys. In addition, I'm on PrEp.
I'm not promoting bareback sex. Going raw is a personal decision. And your personal experience might defer to mine. I'm pretty sure if I had wanted to use a condom most of those guys would have been OK. But because of the submissiveness of Asian guys they won't say no. That's one of the reasons I'm so into Asians: their willingness to please me!
maump (September 14th, 2022), Twinklover (May 24th, 2023)
Why would you feel the need to "clarify" that to US especially ?
You do realise that no one here gives the slightest fuck about such things and nor do we judge each other for "paying for it: or not - in fact you'll find a lot of us even prefer simply paying at times as it can help speed things along if you've maybe set yourself a daily tally to enjoy working towards. It can also then reduce the risk of any possible confusions or dramas later on perhaps too and help all concerned to be very clear that it's about it's "business" and that you're not looking for a boyfriend when the occasion calls for it too ! So you see there's a lot to be said for having a good fuck, saying here's your money now kindly toddle along there now please and - NEXT" - all in the nicest possible way of course !
Zebedee (August 21st, 2020)
Practicing safe sex is a personal decision as you stated earlier, and only you can decide what's best for you, the guy you're with, and, unfortunately, others who may be effected by your decisions. As long as you are being PLEASED, I guess that's all that matters.
Yes, Asian guys are more submissive than guys in the West, and when he's being submissive with you, you can bet your bottom dollar that he is being equally submissive with all the other guys that he's getting ridden by. The fact that the guys you're fucking bareback are not "money boys" is totally irrelevant.
BenCH (August 21st, 2020), dab69 (August 21st, 2020), Dax (August 21st, 2020), GerBear1958 (August 30th, 2020), Nirish guy (August 20th, 2020), Oliver2 (August 20th, 2020), Zebedee (August 21st, 2020)
Not forgetting of course that just because he claims not to be a money boy to YOU doesn't mean that he's NOT a money boy to others when rent day is looming - he could well be playing all sorts of other longer terms games that you're totally aware of ( or you pretend to be unaware of to ease your 'shame" of paying a money boy), whether that be him just wanting to hook up with you for sex, or looking forward to plenty of dinners and drinks in nice restaurants during HIS trip to Bkk or Patts etc, but just because a guy isn't a money boy ( and getting fucked by half of Bkk and Patts) one day certainly doesn't mean he isn't and can't be the next day ( or hour ) before he met you)
Dodger (August 20th, 2020)
No brainer: fucking (either way) always with condom.
During foreplay, I sometimes get into situation that would lead to bareback, and from those situations I conclude that about 1 out of 4 of my sexual partners would be open to bareback.
There are three things to consider:
HIV: protection by condom. I don't know anyone who has HIV. I don't take PrEP and I don't know anyone who takes PrEP.
Other STIs: condom protects here as well.
(Pregnancy not an issue for gays).
And third, about 1 out of 10 cases I fuck someone, afterwards I have traces of soft brown matter on my condom. And it's not chocolate. A Farang friend never did and will never do fucking (either way) and once told me that that (possibility of such things happening) is what totally puts him off fucking.
christian...am totally surprised that prep isnt a thing in Germany...kinda shocked actually...its very liberating...back on topic..I'm proudly slutty and expect my sex partners especially in sex by the sea better known as Pattaya to be as equally if not more slutty...as for a little bit of shit on my dick...just means I really fucked deep...nothing to worry about...