I think that's rather a straw man argument as I'm not sure that anyone was suggesting donating funds to every fuck that asks for them!
I do think though that if you have sufficient interest in someone to provide them with your contact details in your home country, you shouldn't be surprised to be contacted, especially when times are hard, which is clearly the case now around the world but especially in countries where there is no safety net. If you do have that interest, in my eyes you have to have quite a black heart to summarily dismiss any request for assistance.
For the record I wasn't comparing you to the Colonel, and your previous posts demonstrate that you are not a cheap charlie, however some of the comments in this thread are close to obnoxious for their lack of humanity. We have all come across male farang visitors, to Pattaya especially, who are incapable of considering their local sex partners as actually being human.
Just calling that out!