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The Telegraph
I came home early from work recently and found my 19-year-old son having sex. However, he was not with his girlfriend, but one of our neighbours: a married man, twice his age.
I quietly made myself scarce and I’m sure they don’t know I saw them. But now I’m not sure what to do. Without going into detail, it was obvious that this was a consensual encounter.
I would be lying if I said I was not shocked by what I saw, and trying to “unsee” it would, as far as I can tell, be impossible for me. If my son wishes to “come out” to me I want to help him as much as I can. So far I’ve told no one. Should I just keep quiet, or speak to one or both of them? Any advice would be welcome.
Christopher,...