Non money boys

[BOY69]

Paying by barter rather than by cash doesn't make him any less a money boy

Excatly. A real Non money boy will have a proper job and will support himself.

[a447]

I've always thought that the term "money boy" involved him having sex with his benefactor.

So by my own definition, francois' friend is not a money boy.

[BOY69]

I've always thought that the term "money boy" involved him having sex with his benefactor.

So by my own definition, francois' friend is not a money boy.

Certainly not. I saw many times very old clients whom I doubt can perform any sex activity taking boys as companion and not for sex,That doesn't make the boy non money boy !

[frequent]

Certainly not. I saw many times very old clients whom I doubt can perform any sex activity taking boys as companion and not for sex,That doesn't make the boy non money boy !

There's something I call "the money boy mentality" - an expectation that someone else will underwrite their life choices. Sex is usually but may or may not be a component

[francois]

Excatly. A real Non money boy will have a proper job and will support himself.

Non-money boy, boyfriend, does have a job and does support his family.

[BOY69]

Non-money boy, boyfriend, does have a job and does support his family.

Money boy or non money boy is not relevant if you two are happy this is the most important thing.

[Manforallseasons]

I knew some silly old queen who didn’t want a money boy but a boy that would love him......after many failed attempts he realized in the long run a non money boy was much more expensive than a m/b.

[BOY69]

"If you are looking for Love in Thailand rent it."

[bkkguy]

That is what is so sad about the whole money/non money idea. In most cases it is based solely on looks, and onmaterial things not on the qualities that a person should be judged on. But in the long run, I always feel that they are the losers as they do not have any idea what qualities they should in fact be looking for.

I suppose these are the same "losers" who keep watching porn that doesn't feature unattractive people espousing high moral principles?

and who should get to preach about "what qualities [we] should in fact be looking for" in a commercial sex encounter and/or a non-commercial one night stand and/or a long term relationship?

and who should get to be so judgemental as to decide when it becomes "sad" and when others become "losers" in these type of encounters?

[chip]

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