so called bar boy gossip is over exaggerated...remember the all important " save face" concept that rules in Thailand...I could hypothetically ride the MB like a pony and use him like a spittoon whilst Im doing so...all the whilst giggling at his efforts to please me...but to his friends nothing happened...it was a lovely fuck date...and I treated him like a princess...i can waltz in the next day...and he will greet me with a big smile and fawn all over me...and I'll do the same...big smile and compliments...what happens in da room...stays in da room...