Yes, and those 'straight' white guys are really bisexual men in denial. They like boys but it's convienient to apply the the concept of 'ladyboys' on femboys because then they are not really gay, right?
Agree 100%. It has to involve playing more with the gender than just being femine as a boy.
Here's a famous example of a sexy femboy. Mon Kwan from PrivateBoyMovie.
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