Ahhhh you see thats where one of the benefits of a long term partner comes in as it quickly goes from "Shit I really shouldn't it's terribly ban manners" to " Ahh bugger you, that'll teach you for pissing me and interupting me last night when I was trying to watch TV" - and if they've REALLY pissed you off and you want to make the point one can then of course revert to full on tactical pulling up of the covers as the awaken asking WTF ! as thats ALWAYS a sure way of starting the day off well with them ! :-)