Bar boy deaths

[scottish-guy]

Given your rather infrequent visits to Thailand in the last decade or so (once?) the chances of you knowing him would be quite slim. Asking for a link to a friends FB is just ugly voyeurism. Bravo to Colmx for not providing it.

I was never a 4x a year visitor to Thailand - the most I have managed is 2x in a year due to work commitments.

In the past 7 or 8 years I've had a long term BF in Vietnam (and also an apartment now) and because of that, plus a reduction in my work activity in more recent years, I now prefer to go there 2 or 3 times a year.

I will be there in the next few days and will stay for just over 2 weeks. We may go outside Vietnam but it's highly unlikely it would be to Thailand as he seems to be (irrationally) anxious that I will be swept off my feet by some Pattaya GoGo boy! This is not fantasy - although I'm a very private individual we have both met SGT forum contributors.

When I come back in early Sept I will have about a week to 10 days home before a short trip to Germany, with a friend.

This is called having a life MiniMee- you should try it instead of getting some sort of vicarious orgasm from monitoring other people's movements

Not that you even do it successfully or efficiently - I have visited Thailand not once as you suggest but ~ 6 or 7 times in the time frame you mention. Overall I have visited over 20 times. I'm certain others have visited more but it's not actually a competition you know and there is no qualification bar to post here.

Moving on to the subject of A-O - several photos have been posted here of boys who have died either through accidents or other reasons (including AIDS), yet I don't recall you criticising any of those posters. Perhaps you'd be good enough to demonstrate your consistent outrage over "voyeurism" by linking to your critical comments on those other posts?

I respect Colmx not wanting to post a link or a photo - and in fact I commented positively on it.