Thanks Smiles and NIrish for your posts.
And to answer Frequent BF and I usually spend 14 weeks per year together (9 in SE Asia, 5 in Dublin) per annum and during that time we are pretty much 24/7 together. We are also in contact 3-4 times a day by FB video chat
Some of my work colleagues sees their GF/BFs once a week... so we doing better than them a least.
The first (only) time I met smiles was at a board gathering in Memories/Sunee. Can't remember the specifics but I think that the organizer of the drinks actually never turned up. I don remember GayButton being at the next table and an ex forum regular (TopJohn) was also at out table.
coincidentally the first and only time I met NIrishGuy we also met at a Morlam! We ended up in NAB that night,
Even more of a coincidence is that Nirish ended up taking a boy home.... who used to do the aforementioned "coloured string out of his ass" show in Tangmo, Phuket. Last I saw him he was one of the dancers in TingTong red show