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Thread: Relationship with bar boy..how long will it last?

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    Relationship with bar boy..how long will it last?

    ive been with only one boy for the last 2 years and i want to know other's experiences...what makes you stay with him and what also made you put an end to it.....


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    Re: Relationship with bar boy..how long will it last?

    Do you two live together? Or do you just see him when you're on holidays in Thailand? Two very different situations.
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    Re: Relationship with bar boy..how long will it last?

    Kelly, not to be flippant, but the relationship will last until your money is depleted. For me it has been 10+ years and continuing, until death parts us or .......

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    Re: Relationship with bar boy..how long will it last?

    Quote Originally Posted by kelly
    ive been with only one boy for the last 2 years and i want to know other's experiences...what makes you stay with him and what also made you put an end to it.....
    age difference , interests, living together, some important matters.

    i had bad experiences with Thai boys

    since 4 years together with a pino from Davao,
    i stau 4 times a year 4 weeks in Davao,


    he is not from the scene , it was a desperate guy who was looking, sure for a sponsor, to help him with his studies. Nowadays he belongs to the top 10 of best students on the uni, average of 93% of the 15 grades he already have. Now he is doning his On job training in Cincinetti.
    Now he generates his own money, so he not wants money from me, because a i said he generates his own money.
    Next year when his study is finished he can work with me on the cruiseship.
    Yes we love each other, more a father son relation, he thanks me freqently for the thing i make happen for him.

    this is my experience but not with a bar boy

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    Re: Relationship with bar boy..how long will it last?

    i met my bf when he was working in a bar over a year ago...but since we became bf's he's not worked in any bars
    i've been over to see him 3 times,a month each time ...we hope to live together in the future...but in this world nothing is certain so i just make the best of it and enjoy every minute together.

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    Re: Relationship with bar boy..how long will it last?

    as a matter of interest, chris, what does your boyfriend do now for work?
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    Re: Relationship with bar boy..how long will it last?

    I meet my Partner 4 years ago on the Internet ,He lived in Surin and was at univercity at the time we meet .
    He had never worked bar or even been in Pataya .
    We meet in his free time from Univercity,and clicked right away ,we now live back here in London ,had a Cival partnership nearly two years ago ,I am self employed and we work together here ,He has just passed is UK For Life test ,and is alos taking driving lessons here .It works pretty well.
    We do visit Thailand 2/3 times per year which we both really enjoy .
    Our aim is to one day retire back in Thaialnd ,we may have a few years to go yet and a bit more savings to do ,but thats our goal.

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    Oh ..he went back to Isaan to work on the family farm ...last time i stayed there for a while
    he went to work in a factory in bkk ..one time for a couple of months

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    Re: Relationship with bar boy..how long will it last?

    Quote Originally Posted by kelly
    ive been with only one boy for the last 2 years and i want to know other's experiences...
    I for my longest ever relationship, I offed the same guy about 5 times in 8 days.

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    Re: Relationship with bar boy..how long will it last?

    sounds like fun goji, but hardly a relationship? :dontknow:
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