Some people might prefer that, Lonely, but it's soooo easy to meet and hook up with gay guys once you get to Phnom Penh.

There's lots of gay guys at the Heart of Darkness disco after 11pm each night. All the gays hang out in the corner of the dance floor that is opposite the DJ and next to the stairs. Really easy to chat them up. Lots of gays hanging around Blue Chilli on Saturday nights after 8-9pm too (possibly other nights too).

As with most Asian cities, once you meet one friendly gay guy, you get introduced to lots more, everyone wants to know you and your network of friends grows pretty quickly!

I'm sure there are other bars where you can meet gay locals in Phnom Penh, which others here can tell you about...