I recently went to Bangkok and found the following:

a. Future Boys -- better than three years ago, when they were all ladyboys, but still lacking a good show.
b. Classic Boys -- F.
c. Jupiter 2002 -- excellent, excellent show. Highest recommendation.

We also went to DJ Station. It was crowded --- VERY crowded. My bf didn't understand why anyone went, and neither did I, aside from (duh) "Everyone goes there."

The Emporium, Central Chitlom, and Chatuchak Market were GREAT. Also the hotel: the Heritage Baan Silom on Silom 19. The river taxi up to the Grand Palace was a lot of fun!