I "hear" what some of u say....I have never forced anyone...but I have encouraged them monetarily....in my not so humble opinion a mb is NOT my equal...he is NOT my lover...he is NOT ultimately in charge....I PAY...i DECIDE....,I buy him so i can USE him....yes...USE..... may sound crude...but is that not their function...to be used for the customers satisafction...i dont care who they are...what their name is...all i want is a body that is to my satisfaction...