There is NO doubt that I am ridiculously picky and it drives me crazy also. I am lucky to have found one in the Complex in March and it was fantastic. I only saw one other guy who ticked all the boxes for me but he was friendly with my chosen one and I never got a chance to be with him. Maybe on my next visit?
What about Winner Bar in Sunee? I have heard that might be a good place to look...anyone been there lately?