Originally Posted by
a447
I don't see "sluttiness" as being anything to be ashamed of or even mentioned on a forum like this.
Men in general, and gays in particular, tend to be slutty by nature, whereas women are not. I'm sure it's got something to do with evolution. Make men perpetually horny so the species reproduces, but put a brake on it so that we don't over-populate.
Men, straight and gay, can be very promiscuous. An example are the saunas, which are strictly for men, not women, as their attitude to sex is different. The number of times we change partners just illustrates how slutty we are. But if you behave in a slutty way just once, then you've joined the group. Everything else is merely a matter of degree.
As for what others see as being decent, I couldn't care less. Just as they guys who I called "stupid" couldn't care less, either.
We are entitled to lead whatever lives we want, as long as we have mutual agreement as to what activities we propose to do, and no one gets hurt in the process.