Moses...I had NO idea...
Moses...I had NO idea...
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No, I don't have sex with him. My experience shows that sex with a houseboy reduces the quality of service - the houseboy begins to think that he was hired for sex and pays less attention to cleaning.
Besides that, I never pay for sex, and as long as there are enough willing guys around me, I'm not going to change this rule.
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Dodger (May 24th, 2024)
What’s the difference between a “live-in boyfriend” and a “houseboy” ?
Over the last 20 years of visiting Pattaya I recall at least 3 periods when I was on extended stays of approximately 2 to 3 months, when I had young guys living with me in my rented condo. Their function was to have sex and sleep with me, but more than that they did help with cleaning the place and two of them improved my Thai language. Usually they came with me to social meetings with a couple of gay friends, who sometimes also had more long term boyfriends. I should add I rewarded them with money and regular presents.
My question is “Did I have houseboys” ? I don’t really ever using the term in my dealing with them.
Daveuk (May 25th, 2024)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Houseboy
00052-2486216668.jpgA houseboy (alternatively spelled as houseboi) is a term which refers to a typically male domestic worker or personal assistant who performs cleaning and other forms of personal chores. The term has a record of being used in the British Empire, military slang, and the male LGBT community.
United Kingdom
Historically, houseboy was a term used in the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Ireland for a male domestic servant. He was usually, but not always, a native person who worked for a British family living in the non-British regions of the empire. A female housecleaner was termed a housegirl. Both sexes often wore uniform, due to their status as domestic servants.
Military slang
Houseboy was also used as an American slang term originating in the Second World War for a young teenager who helped American soldiers perform basic responsibilities like cleaning, laundry, ironing, shoe-shining, running errands, etc. The British English term for this occupation was 'Batman'.
Gay slang
A houseboy, as used by members of the LGBT community, refers to a young man who performs domestic work, where the employment normally has an erotic, though not necessarily sexual, aspect.
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"Toyboy" is more frequently in use.
"Houseboy" is used both in regular LGBT slang to denote the fact that a person is hired to perform a domestic chore (houseboy), and in BDSM slang to denote the role of a partner in a Master - servant/slave role-playing game. In the second case, the term is used to emphasize the servant's submission to the Master.
“Toyboy” is also used both in LGBT slang and in BDSM to denote partial impersonality, the reification of a partner in role-playing game: the toy is not asked for its wishes, and the owner plays with it in accordance only with his own preferences.
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As I digress a bit...
When I was in the Army stationed in S. Korea I lived in a Quonset hut which held around 12 GI's. Each hut had an assigned houseboy who took care of our laundry and ran errands if so requested.
Each platoon had their own cadre of young Korean houseboys who were almost all cute effeminate acting boys who came from the local village. Our houseboys name was Lim who was an absolute doll...slim...hypnotizing smile...jet-black hair that always dipped below one eye...and a perfectly sculpted little butt that he loved showcasing in his tight cotton pants without wearing any underwear. I was tempted on so many occasions to make an advance when the other soldiers weren't around, although for fear of being exposed I always (almost always) held back.
Then on one afternoon I found myself sitting alone in my hut recovering from a sprained ankle when the rest of the soldiers in my unit were off playing war games - and in walks Lim carrying a stack of laundered clothes. He saw me sitting on my foot locker...shot me one of his textbook alluring smiles...and immediately returned to where I was sitting after placing the clothes he was carrying on each soldiers cot.
I remember the rush of excitement that flowed through me when he sat directly across from me on my cot with his legs spread exposing a bulge that seemed to be moving in his thin cotton pants as we started small talk. I was only wearing boxer shorts and a t shirt having just returned from the shower - and he seemed intently focused on my crotch the whole time we chatted. Then, out-of-nowhere he said..."I think all American GI's have big cocks". I don't know what got into me but after hearing that all the fear and apprehension seemed to disappear as I changed my position from sitting on the foot locker to sitting directly next to him on the cot.
In less than 60 seconds his hand was resting on my cock and mine on his. My heart was beating through my chest and he seemed to be hyperventilating as well as we ripped each others clothes off and stared tasting everything that could be tasted. The blowjob he gave me was better than any I had received from the girls in the village and I wanted to fuck hom so bad. Feeling extremely paranoid I jumped up from the cot and put my cargo pants on as quick as I could right after we finished cumming in each others mouths.
We made plans to meet off-post at the room where he and a few other boys stayed at the edge of the village which launched my first adventure into "Gaydom".
At first I thought of him as "Houseboy"...then it shifted to "Boytoy"...then, after getting to really know him, I just settled on the term "Friend".
I'll never forget my adventures with Lim...new doors were opened...so many adventures to follow...but none as earth-moving as that first one.
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