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    Tawan bar

    I went to Thailand for my first time this year but only for a few days in Bangkok. I went to Tawan bar which is a paradise for bodybuilder lovers. I met 2 guys in 2 days but only for a short time. Do you know if it is possible to meet guys in this bar for a night or maybe for a day ?

    Thanks for your advice, I would like to come back in february and as I'm very shy I don't know what are the customs and which kind of questions I can ask to them


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    As with any bar boy you can take them off for a day/week/month(or more) if you can afford it.

    You simply pay the bar fine to take them out and then "tip " them after your night of whatever. Amount of tip is different for different people.

    Most average 1000-2000 per night ?.

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    And dont be shy - they certainly aren`t lol.

    If you ask them what they like sexually - most will reply "up to you".

    be specific and tell them what you want.

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    'be specific'

    Oogleman is right be as specific as you can about anything and everything you want. Talk to the boy and agree exactly what you want before you take him off тАУ youтАЩre much more likely to have an enjoyable time that way. The mamasan (bar manager for want of a better term) will translate if the boyтАЩs English is poor.

    On my first trip I left the sex talk with the boys until I was back in the hotel and alone with them. Shy you see.;-) But itтАЩs bloody frustrating having wined and dined a boy all night to find out that he doesnтАЩt like what you like. I soon became a lot less shy and a lot happier. Remember what these guys do for a living, you arenтАЩt going to embarrass them by talking about sex.

    Similarly, if you want a guy 'long-time', which can mean anything from all night to all your holiday, agree this beforehand with him. Some of the boys can only do тАШshort-timeтАЩ i.e. a few hours, due to family or college commitments, etc.
    A conscience is what hurts when all your other parts feel so good.

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    Up to you

    Quote Originally Posted by Oogleman
    If you ask them what they like sexually - most will reply "up to you". be specific and tell them what you want.
    Even that good advice sometimes isn't enough. Last night's "off" answered the question "You do everything?" with "Yes, everything". In the cold reality of the bedroom this turned out to be "I fuck you or chuck wow", which was met with the response "Here is your taxi fare back to the bar". Frankly I keep a Little Black Book; it consists of boys who have passed The Colonel's Casting Couch Test and are deemed worth seeing again. For the bar boys it's a useful way of avoiding the tedium of me going to the bar (but as I can readily afford the off fee I often give that as a performance bonus direct to the boy in question)

    The Internet is another place full of possibilities - gay.com or gayromeo.com. The downside and the upside of giving out your mobile phone number is calls at all hours of the day and night - some welcome at the time, others less so

    Since readers of my Blog will know that I subscribe to the theory that sodomy was invented to fill in the time between drinks and dinner, having a bar boy around and sending him on his way before the bar fines kick in at 9pm suits everyone's purpose

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    I like Tawan but I guess I am jaded by some of the posts I have found on the internet relating to some of the experiences some guys have had. Most of the bad things I have read all had to do with money.

    Before I visited Thailand, I searched the internet for any info on the bars and gay establishments and after reading how a few of the dancers demanded upwards of 4000 baht for short time, I decided I would look but not touch.

    I don't know what the average tip is at tawan... Most guys here will mention the place but skip over the payment amount. We know they are paying we just don't know how much. I imagine for some of the HOT guys there you would have to fork out a pretty satang....

    I guess it would only be fair to mention that a few of the guys at Tawan have offered to spend time with me for free but I didn't take them up on the offer.
    These are the good'ol days

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    Hey buck - wheres the trip pics?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Oogleman
    And dont be shy - they certainly aren`t lol.

    If you ask them what they like sexually - most will reply "up to you".

    be specific and tell them what you want.
    i agree with most bars, yes this will be the standard reply. in tawan, i follow this up with are you a bottom?

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    Quote Originally Posted by orson
    i agree with most bars, yes this will be the standard reply. in tawan, i follow this up with are you a bottom?
    LOL I've had similar conversations to this quite a few times.

    You do everything?

    Yes.

    Sure?

    Yes.

    I fuck you.

    No.

    Ahh so not everthing.
    A conscience is what hurts when all your other parts feel so good.

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    One thousand baht may be a bit on the low side, considering the cost of expensive nutritional supplements and gym fees necessary for body building. My two thousand baht for short time is appreciatively accepted, even by a reigning Mr. Thailand. (Not the present one; I do want to be considerate of his privacy.)

    I have never had a Tawan lad тАЬdemandтАЭ anything. One boy suggests he needs more. He has the body of a God, the skin of an angel, and the mentality of a bum. He rarely appears at Tawan, and gets no respect from the boys as he owes them money. You are unlikely to see him.

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